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Jesse Whittle-Utter
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Stuck in "Pandemic Mode"?
As the world slowly moves towards a post-pandemic reality, many of us are experiencing a sense of unease about returning to "normal"...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter, LMFT
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What Happened To Our Shared Understanding of Mental Health? Thoughts From a Preeminent Psychologist
·Early in my training as a therapist I attended a workshop by psychologist, professor and author Nancy McWilliams. The subject (What...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter, LMFT
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What Counts as Trauma? (Part I)
Have you ever had symptoms, beliefs and behaviors that you can’t explain, and because of that, blame yourself for them? In my practice, I...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter, LMFT
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The Four Doors of Change
I remember in graduate school, it was in a relatively inconsequential class that I learned one of the most valuable guiding principles...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter, LMFT
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Why Can’t I Think My Way Out Of This? A User-Friendly Introduction to Your Triune Brain
Neuroscience is a complex field that is very different from therapy, although the two are overlapping more and more as research in both...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter, LMFT
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Can Emotional Depth Be Learned?
One of the most common frustrations my clients experience in their romantic relationships is feeling like their partners possess scant...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter MFT
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Best Practices For Surviving A Trump Election
On Moving Forward After Trump’s Election It has taken a full week before I could ground myself enough to address the monumental loss many...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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The Case Against Vacation
Summer is the time in the U.S. when we come closest to relaxing. This is partly cultural, partly environmental and partly commercial....
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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Taming The Insomnia Beast
Sleep problems are so ubiquitous that hardly anyone talks about them anymore. Of course, we think, everyone is overworked and...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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How To Make Friends, For Adults
Imagine this: you’re out of college and graduate school, you’ve found a career that you love, and a nice apartment or house in an...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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When To Fight And When To Let Go
In relationships it can be hard to know when to stand up for what we need, and when to surrender. Long-term committed relationships only...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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Why EMDR Works
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is more than just a therapeutic technique; it’s an entire theory of human...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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What Is Your Love Language?
Do you know your love language? The idea of Love Languages was conceived and popularized by Gary Chapman in his bestselling book, "The 5...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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How To Build A Self
There are many ways people in the Western world define themselves: through accomplishments and successes; ethnic, community and cultural...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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The Importance Of External Validation
I would like to write about an issue that comes up frequently in my sessions, namely, the question of where a “healthy” adult should...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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Is Psychiatry Faith-Based?
I recently attended a fascinating lecture by Eric Plakun, MD, entitled “Psychiatry’s False Assumptions (And The Price We Pay For Them)”....
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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Power Posing: Simple, Ridiculous, & Hugely Effective
Perhaps you have heard that our internal state if often reflected in how we hold and move our bodies - whether we like it or not. (Freud...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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Are Teens Worse Off Than Ever Before? Part III
In my earlier posts, I discussed the unprecedented social, cultural, and economic pressures teens face today. In this post, I will...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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Mental Health In The Digital Age: The Price Of Our On-Demand Culture
Fifteen years ago, many conscientious Americans were concerned about the “digital divide” in the United States: The inequitable access...
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Jesse Whittle-Utter LMFT
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Are Teens Worse Off Than Ever Before? Part II
To read Part I of this series, click here. Teens today have incredible opportunity—made possible by technology—to access knowledge, form...
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